I hate scripted game, so this is damn biased. It is ridiculous to go up and have the same conversation with every woman you meet with only slight modifications such as in the timing of your behavior. My biggest problem with scripted game is it only grants one thing- situational confidence. How is that helpful? You are confident running this one game but what happens if you run into a woman in a different situation? This is the problem right here with scripted game.
You have confidence in this system and a system that works that shit will get you laid but it deletes you as a human. You lose your individuality, and I cherish my individuality. Why would I want to lose the only part of me no one can take from me? Perhaps I look at scripted game wrong and I’m sure I am but my points stands how can I be me if I’m busy trying to be Mystery, Style, or whoever. I understand you are looking to model their behavior, and some of it is good but you need to learn to be you.
Yeah learn to stand confident, learn what people do to become confident but don’t forget who you are, what you love and what you are passionate about. I know that not every woman will be attracted to who I am as a person, you can’t catch every fish in the sea, but at the same time I know the woman for me will be fine with the nerd I am. She will be happy with me. If you are a bit of a romantic like me, and hope to one day have one woman not hundreds it is a far better idea to learn to be the best you than one day tell the story of how you met your wife like every other women you’ve come across.
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After you have built the same connection you have with every other woman having the same conversation when are you going to introduce her to you? At what point if you really like this woman are you going to say “Hi I’ve used up all my material and now I’d like to introduce you to the real me, I’m —.” It may not be as direct as that but it will be a stunning moment.
Why not avoid that? Why not just get that shit out of the way when you start the actual courtship process? I mean is it wrong to think maybe you guys missed the point of learning about getting better with women? You need to start with revealing your personality to the world some information should be withheld (virginity, video game habits, your Star Wars Collection) early on so that they don’t perceive you for someone you are not. People tend to judge and if she gets to know you and likes you, your hobbies shouldn’t be a big deal. Remember hobbies aren’t who you are, they are what you do. If she is attracted to you and good for you she won’t be against your hobbies.
Natural game is the ultimate challenge because it isn’t about gaming women – getting women should never be the center of your life anyhow-it is about you learning to become the best you. Natural game is about you advancing your life, gaining experiences, wisdom, and knowledge. If you want to get good with women don’t lie to them. Go out and have those damn experiences and when you return you’ll feel different. There won’t be any fake it until you make it. More often than not it is the truth that is unbelievable while lies are believable, we try to tell lies worthy of being true, but the truth needs no distraction it is bold enough.
Don’t rob human’s of brilliant things like courtship and romance by cheapening it with lies and manipulation. Make it what it is, a special moment where two humans connect and enjoy each other’s company not a false ungenuine moment. It’s sad that pick up isn’t about actually meeting a woman who’ll make them happy. It is about treating women horribly (negs, lies, and tricks), whatever happened to that old PUA motto “Leave ‘em better then when you got ‘em.”? Why do so many guys insist on dehumanizing women? You want to fuck something you don’t consider human? Are you into interspecies erotica? If that is the case go fuck a sheep, but don’t treat women like shit because your shitty self-esteem. Learn to be genuine and connect with people and you’ll be just as successful as the next guy.
I already gave my motivational speech, I’m over that. So what do you do if you aren’t comfortable talking to a woman but want to go natural? Just go talk to her, don’t hit on her, so what if it’s the lamest conversation of her day. Go up and say “Hi, How’s it going?” or whatever else. Go out there get shot down, hell don’t even hit on a girl, walk up and talk to her have a regular conversation, you’d be surprised how easy it is to connect with a girl if you just be yourself. I build attraction not because I hit on girls, use routines, or neg women but because I genuinely show interest in them, make them smile, compliment them, make them comfortable, and have some fun.
Just realize it’s not a big deal to have regular hello conversation. Sometimes we build up a moment to be this gargantuan thing, “oh what if she laughs in my face?” Really who the fuck cares? Nothing changed. You never had a shot if you didn’t try. This is something I’ve struggled with in the past, so many times I’d kept the motto “Never try Never fail.” Well the “I should have tried” seems to sting just a bit more than knowing she isn’t interested. If you don’t change what you are doing you will continue to get what you’ve got. If you don’t talk to women you won’t go anywhere with women. So go out and introduce YOURSELF to women not some script some guy has written so you can shield yourself from harm.
Peace and Love,
Vic
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